Maybe most of men know how to make a date with a girl, but how many of you know how to win girl's heart?

We know that making a date with a girl doesn't mean that she's willing to be your girlfriend, perhaps she just wanted to kill her time by seeing a film with you. If at this time you say, "I love you!" Oh, I'm afraid that it's too soon for you to do this. You may probably scare her, so there will be no chance for you to approach her. In my opinion, there are at least three steps you have to prepare for before you express your love.

First, you must try your best to collect her information secretly. You have to know her tastes, her habits, whether she likes animals, whether she likes sports, whether she likes reading, even you have to know what kind of book she likes. You can get her data from her friend, by yourself, or some other ways, but don't let her know this. Remember, it is easy for you to take her by surprise.

Second, you must have patience, because you have to wait for a good opportunity to let her know that you're an honest, believable man, there're many similarities between you and her. Hopefully, you can make her feel you're the only one man who can understand her in this world.

At this time, you may ask what can be called a good opportunity? When she needs helping and consoling. As you know no matter how strong we are, we still have weaknesses. When we meet some trouble that we can't solve, we will feel frustrated and it's quite natural that we want to need some helps from others, especially for women. Remember, patience is a virtue.

Finally, you must be brave and confident to express your love to her. It's the last but also the most important for you to achieve your dream. Actually, you don't have to be frightened, because she may have been waiting for you for a long time. Remember, the strong will do what they want, the weak will do what they must.

In fact, I have to point out that all of this depends on your capital. If you don't have enough money, you'd better try to get enough capital first.

Anyway, I wish all of you can find your own girlfriends who you love.

November 13, 2000