Yi-Hsuan
Ho (Tiffany)

Relationships

Politeness and thoughtfulness are the three main points of having good relationships with other people. Being modern people today, everyone has to learn how to keep good relationship with other people and it is the major key for people to be successful in today's society. Nowadays people are more concern about their jobs so that they ignore the importance of having good relationships with others. Having a good relationship with others is a very important skill for everyone because whenever they need help in psychically or psychically, other people will happy to help them.

First, people have to have proper manner toward other people because the first impress is very important. For example, if 'person A' interrupts person 'B' when 'B' is talking, other people may think 'person A' is a rude person. Then, when people meet 'person A' next time, they will have bad impress on 'person A'. Thus, 'A' will have difficulties to get friends. For this reason, people have to learn act and talk properly. There are some major types of people that people would like to meet such as smiling people, friendly people and kind people. For example, when people first time to meet a stranger, they would hope that the person smiles to them rather than gives them angry face. Also, if people can start to talk to the new friends, they can easily to get close with other people. Thus, they can easily to develop their friendship. In addition, if people are kind to others, then other people will appreciate what they get and appreciate their relationship as well. Therefore, when we meet others, we better to concern about our acting and talking because we can build a good foundation for the future.

Once people get to know someone they have to learn for the next thing is thoughtfulness. Having a thoughtful personality can improve relationship with others. Concentration is the major thing, which can bring the wonderful feeling into people's relationships. If not, people may lose their chances to meet some good friends. For example, when 'person A' gets a bad grade, then person B knows that and so 'person B' encourages 'person A' and tell him to keep going. Since that time, 'person A' and 'person B' could become good friends because they already build a good relationship between each other. In order to achieve close relationship with others people can spend some time on concerning their friends. In the same time, they can get to know their friends better and understand their friends more.

Since people have good impresses to meet people and then they keep to know each other more. People have to spend some time to keep in touch with their friends especially when people do not have many opportunities to meet or to get together with each other. When people cannot have many opportunities to meet their friends, it is the time to exam their good faith on getting friends. People should call their friends or write letters to their friends because sometimes they can get to know how are their friends doing. It also shows the concern of their friends. When people start doing that, they can get closer with their friends and long term friendship.

In conclusion, people should develop themselves some good manners in order to give other people good impressions. Once they get new friends, they have to show them what they really are and try to know their friends' as well. When people cannot have enough chances to hand out with their friends, they should try other ways to get relationship closer such as writing some letters or calling their friends. People sometimes can get from each other by knowing the situations. These methods seem very easy, but people usually overlook them. Thus, people should pay more considerations for doing that. Friends will not always there if people do not showing any good things to them. On the other hand, when people show their kindness to their friends, they can build a strong bridge for keeping good relationships with other people.

March 2000