Yi-HsuanHo (Tiffany) |
Politeness and thoughtfulness are the three main points of having
good relationships with other people. Being modern people today,
everyone has to learn how to keep good relationship with other
people and it is the major key for people to be successful in
today's society. Nowadays people are more concern about their
jobs so that they ignore the importance of having good
relationships with others. Having a good relationship with others
is a very important skill for everyone because whenever they need
help in psychically or psychically, other people will happy to
help them.
First, people have to have proper manner toward other people because
the first impress is very important. For example, if 'person A'
interrupts person 'B' when 'B' is talking, other people may think
'person A' is a rude person. Then, when people meet 'person A' next
time, they will have bad impress on 'person A'. Thus, 'A' will
have difficulties to get friends. For this reason, people have
to learn act and talk properly. There are some major types of
people that people would like to meet such as smiling people,
friendly people and kind people. For example, when people first
time to meet a stranger, they would hope that the person smiles
to them rather than gives them angry face. Also, if people can
start to talk to the new friends, they can easily to get close
with other people. Thus, they can easily to develop their friendship. In addition, if people are kind to others, then other people will appreciate what they get and appreciate their relationship as well. Therefore, when we meet others, we better to concern about our acting and talking because we can build a good foundation for the future.
Once people get to know someone they have to learn for the next
thing is thoughtfulness. Having a thoughtful personality can
improve relationship with others. Concentration is the major
thing, which can bring the wonderful feeling into people's
relationships. If not, people may lose their chances to meet
some good friends. For example, when 'person A' gets a bad
grade, then person B knows that and so 'person B' encourages 'person A'
and tell him to keep going. Since that time, 'person A' and
'person B' could become good friends because they already build
a good relationship between each other. In order to achieve
close relationship with others people can spend some time on
concerning their friends. In the same time, they can get to
know their friends better and understand their friends more.
Since people have good impresses to meet people and then they
keep to know each other more. People have to spend some time to
keep in touch with their friends especially when people do not
have many opportunities to meet or to get together with each
other. When people cannot have many opportunities to meet
their friends, it is the time to exam their good faith on
getting friends. People should call their friends or write
letters to their friends because sometimes they can get to
know how are their friends doing. It also shows the concern
of their friends. When people start doing that, they can get
closer with their friends and long term friendship.
In conclusion, people should develop themselves some good
manners in order to give other people good impressions. Once
they get new friends, they have to show them what they really
are and try to know their friends' as well. When people cannot
have enough chances to hand out with their friends, they
should try other ways to get relationship closer such as
writing some letters or calling their friends. People sometimes
can get from each other by knowing the situations. These methods
seem very easy, but people usually overlook them. Thus,
people should pay more considerations for doing that. Friends
will not always there if people do not showing any good things
to them. On the other hand, when people show their kindness to
their friends, they can build a strong bridge for keeping good
relationships with other people.
March 2000 |