Hui Lin
Chien
(Angela)

How to Become Popular

When we was children, we may not know how important the relation between people is. As we growth up, we are getting to know how to build the relationship with people. Now, I would like to tell you about how to make yourself popular. There are three ways, which are keeping personal interaction attractive, satisfying with making friends, and keeping friendship forever.

First, I would like to tell you about keeping personal interaction attractive. We should always keep smile on our face. When we first time to meet a new friend, smile will give people a good impression on you. Smiling will shorten the distance between people and people. Humorous will also help you with building personal interaction. People said humorous are the sugar within people relationship. If you know how to use humorous in the proper time, it would help you to make a lot of friends. Last point is thinking other people first. Most people will treat themselves nicer than treat other people. Everyone has a ruler inside their mind so they will use this ruler to measure how to treat people in the same way.

Next, I would like to tell you how to satisfy with making friends. First, we should love ourselves and love your friends. People always love themselves the way too much; therefore, they think if you care about me, you should see how did I change. They just want people to care about them but they did not care about other's feeling. Most people are not good at showing their impression, especially Asians. We should show people our impression. Sharing with friends and listening to friends are important. We should share everything with your friends; such as, your happiness, your thinking, and your problems.

Last, how to keep your friendship forever is the most important. First, we should always remember people's support and help. We can buy a gift or ask them out for meal to thank. Second, giving your friends truth advises. When people are upset, they just want to tell their feeling to their best friends or family. As a friend, we should give our friend; we should give some good suggestions. Last, don't forget to keep in touch with your friends. You should always update your address book and call your friends out often.

In short, I hope these three ways will help you with making friends and making yourself more popular. Finding a friend is not difficult, but the way you treat people will be more difficult. I think if you did what I said, you will be a popular person.

December 1999