Hui LinChien (Angela) |
When we was children, we may not know how important the relation
between people is. As we growth up, we are getting to know
how to build the relationship with people. Now, I would like
to tell you about how to make yourself popular. There are
three ways, which are keeping personal interaction attractive,
satisfying with making friends, and keeping friendship forever.
First, I would like to tell you about keeping personal interaction
attractive. We should always keep smile on our face. When we
first time to meet a new friend, smile will give people a good
impression on you. Smiling will shorten the distance between
people and people. Humorous will also help you with building
personal interaction. People said humorous are the sugar
within people relationship. If you know how to use humorous
in the proper time, it would help you to make a lot of
friends. Last point is thinking other people first. Most
people will treat themselves nicer than treat other people.
Everyone has a ruler inside their mind so they will use this
ruler to measure how to treat people in the same way.
Next, I would like to tell you how to satisfy with making
friends. First, we should love ourselves and love your friends.
People always love themselves the way too much; therefore, they
think if you care about me, you should see how did I change.
They just want people to care about them but they did not care
about other's feeling. Most people are not good at showing
their impression, especially Asians. We should show
people our impression. Sharing with friends and listening
to friends are important. We should share everything with
your friends; such as, your happiness, your thinking, and
your problems.
Last, how to keep your friendship forever is the most important.
First, we should always remember people's support and help.
We can buy a gift or ask them out for meal to thank. Second,
giving your friends truth advises. When people are upset,
they just want to tell their feeling to their best friends or
family. As a friend, we should give our friend; we should give
some good suggestions. Last, don't forget to keep in touch
with your friends. You should always update your address book
and call your friends out often.
In short, I hope these three ways will help you with making
friends and making yourself more popular. Finding a friend
is not difficult, but the way you treat people will be more
difficult. I think if you did what I said, you will be a
popular person.
December 1999 |